Birthday@18th November:their expectation and ours.

I did hear a alot about her from him. Their bantering and bickering. I was acting like a love guru in their love life and somewhere it gave me a sense of pride. Its easy to give philosphy to others and I enjoyed it as I was free. I did lot of analysis on their compatibility,selflessness,selfishness,sacrifice and on all those human traits. But I havenot met her.I even wondered how expectation varies from person to person. Like a person who is hungry expects food,a jobless person wants a job and many more myriad examples like this. But these examples are quite evident and obvious.But I have never experienced this experience.

It was first hand experience though. It was my her birthday and It was so special that its hard to pen down here. Birthday for me is like the day when you have a blast with your gang of friend day and night revelry with wine,beer and to be more precise with some kind of ecstasy. But it was totally different(My idea is past now because I donot celebrate my birthday in that way but its my impression)
It was special because we went there on our friend's behalf. Atleast he trusted us in this way and moreover her girl also obliged us by being with us. Usually most of the girl would have denied  this kind of proposal and there is a point also but she still came and it was heartening to see her. We bought a small cake on our friend's instruction and some chocolates for her. we didnot get any place to cut the cake so we all take refuge inside a tree in that cacaphonous place and finally we cut the cake and the happiness which I saw in her eyes was beyond my imagination. She was overjoyed with our gesture but it was not our plan rather her boyfriend's plan. I really doubt about my friend's plan but his plan came out to be true and I was happy for him. But there was something fishy so he celebrated her birthday in this way.
May be its distance or may be some kind of redemption otherwise he would not have celebrated her birthday that too on his behalf  because we all male think in the same way. Whatever be the case I was really happy for them. I was more happy for my friend because finally he got the taste of love because up till recently he measured love with money. I have no doubts that he still sees everything in terms of profit and loss but time and again I make him understand that Love is really beyond all this.
I even talked to her and she was very expressive but there was some pain inside her. I really donot know what actually happend. But I sensed that it was my friend who created pain in her life. Well I have told him time and again about the sacred love but I really doubt whether he understands the meaning of love.

   Tomorrow if she goes away from him than he would cry like a child but he is blind to see the present. I mean both of them cries for their future but they cannot see their present. I donot understand why. Atleast they should start living in present. It would be really great for them. My request for my friend is that donot think too much about future..Just do your  duty now and leave everything upon God and also donot think about money if you really love her. You must do everything possible which ever gives you satisfaction truly my dear friend. On her side I donot have any complains however due to her family setup she thinks more about her family and future but up till some extent its justified because she is just helpless at this moment because she doesnot have right resource. So My dear friend its you who can help her out because Love is not about just meeting of two souls. If you define love than its not love at all and please come out of the shell of profit and loss.
I hope you understand it. It was her birthday and I met her for just twenty minutes and I did see all her life,her aspiration,dreams,expectation from you and all. She just expects from you to be loved in real sense.

Between us.