Critical analysis of Love,sacrifice,selfishness,selflessness in 21st century.

We people living in 21st century where everything is accessible with a phone call or through internet for all those so called privileged class. (In India it’s quite contrary though and it would remain so…. don’t know till when).We people move so fast these days that we tend to forget our basics even. Sad it is but this is the fact. All those so called privileged class must have taken pledge in their school: “India is my country and we love our country and so and so”. But how many of us practice it in real sense. I guess barely 10 percent of them and it’s a real pity. We have been taught about love.. I mean selfless love, sacrifice and all but we all have forgotten this word. We all are busy in our life doing whatever we want because we are privileged living fast life, driving fast bikes and cars, boozing in one shot. We have become so materialistic these days. The person whom we meet we tend to see him physically not going into the depth and then we judge him by his/her brand. Nonsense but it’s the fact.
Does selfless love and sacrifice exist in 21st century? Well I really wonder. These days I meet so many people (since I am jobless by choice) but I hardly find them talking on genuine concerns. Everybody is cribbing for appraisal, performance allowance and promotion( well I am no exception at the same time) I feel that words like sacrifice and selfless have become extinct these days leave alone selfless love…that’s rare these days because we have even co modified fairer sex. But its true for both of the sexes. Gals are not way behind us. Selfless love- I guess it’s really rare these days. Leave love anything selfless is uncommon these days. I was really very much disturbed regarding this selflessness and sacrifice term. The more I tried hard to find its meaning more I found myself in quagmire of confusion. I really went crazy because every relation seems to be formed on need. Well that time I wondered about mother and children relationship which I felt to be pure (I have written in my previous blog also) and then I concluded that there are two types of selfishness one is good and the other one is bad. Also the extent of selfishness varies but in child and mother case it’s almost dismal and according to me (my individual perception) its selflessness because when a mother bears a child she really does not know her child’s future but she never makes any difference in bringing up that child. What if that child turned into privileged class like us. She never cares about it. I really don’t feel that such kind of relationship is selfish. Her only wish is to stand by when she is old. It’s the fact….kind of sacrifice selfless love and not selfishness rather expectation which is the resultant of any relationship. But so many people confuses it with selfishness. It is bad.
Guys what do you say about love at first sight. Don’t ever say this to the person whom you love. She would never believe you. She will ask volley of question and even if your feeling is pure for her then also she would doubt you. How come a person fall in love in first sight. Come on ladies sometimes we guys fall in love when we are in messaging and talking terms and we never get disappointed to see them after and it’s also selfless. My rich experience in this field says that gals do fall in love but they remember their past quite a lot giving their boyfriend sleepless nights. What kind of bloody suffering is this? Well this kind of love is also selfless but expectation still rises but not selfishness.
Finally what I feel is that selfless love and sacrifice co-exists in this selfish world. One should have the eye to judge it(not myopic one,A.b.V.P type). Sometimes we privileged class also do some acts which ought not to be privileged just to show off but we forget. I guess that is not at all selfish act because we forget that act because it was mere show off. Every day we do such kind of small acts even I do(Well I do so many things unconsciously) but that is not selfishness at all.
Between us.